#Avoidant Person

Will be the most gentle, understanding and caring but avoidant person you’ll ever meet

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What do you think? 1. They stay present in conversations that used to overwhelm them. Even though they may be feel triggered doing it, that effort often costs more than it looks. 2. They initiate contact in small but consistent ways because they’ve found that consistency feels safer than intensity. It’s only small but instead of grand gestures they opt for smaller consistent ones. 3. They can tolerate emotional discomfort instead of disappearing because their nervous system is learning something new. 4. They explain their need for space rather than vanishing which is a difficult thing to do because as a child, space may have been the only regulation tool they had. 5. They acknowledge your feelings even if they struggle to respond in a great way yet. That awareness is important because it’s a pathway to security. 6. They return after a little communicated distance instead of staying gone 🙌 It may only seem like small steps but these are massive compared to a lifetime of avoidance. If this resonates, like a follow along the journey 🙌 #emotionalwellbeing #selfawarenessjourney #healingpatterns #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment

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Someone with an avoidant attachment style had early childhood experiences where they weren’t safe. This can involve emotional neglect, boundary violations (smothering behavior), highly stressful/chaotic environments or abandonment. Ultimately, through early repeated experiences, the avoidant person learns: - I must take care of myself - People who love me also hurt me and leave me - Asking for help is pointless - No one cares about what I think or feel - Sharing my feelings will result in conflict and loss of connection - I have to appease to survive Because of a deep seated fear of emotional connection, avoidance is the coping mechanism. Most people who are avoidant feel most safe when they’re alone, not being perceived, and when they’re not being depended on. In relationships, they quickly and easily feel smothered. They have an inner voice that tells them there’s always someone or something better “out there.” Often, they create an internal fantasy world where the past was better. They tend to glorify past partners and relationships or times when they were single. My hope all my videos is to help people with insecure attachment learn the difference between their “attachment voice” and reality. To understand their behavioral and thought patterns. To start to have open and honest conversations with friends and partners. All of us have an attachment style. And it deeply affects how we relate to ourselves and other people. The positive part is, attachment is fluid. With commitment and inner work we can all become more secure, compassionate, and connected with the people we love #selfhealers

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And it was going so well…then BOOM, they’re gone #avoidant #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #attachmentstyles #attachmenttheory #fearfulavoidant #disorganizedattachment #secureattachment #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #healthyrelationships #relationshipcoach #relationshiptips #selflove #healingjourney #mentalhealth #innerchildhealing #growthmindset #healingtrauma #emotionalhealing #boundaries #emotionalintelligence #selfdevelopment #shadowwork #healthycommunication #cyclebreakers #emotionallyunavailable #securerelationships

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Avoidants finally meeting someone that is truly their type, but blowing it because they never learnt to express their emotions and so they overdo it. Wikipedia reports that Adults with a dismissive-avoidant attachment style tend to suppress and hide their feelings, and they tend to deal with rejection by distancing themselves from the sources of rejection (e.g. their attachments or relationships). While these individuals tend to suppress their feelings and may appear unaffected by their emotions, research indicates that they still have strong physiological reactions to emotionally-laden situations and content. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ Attachment_in_adults #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentissues #attachmentstyle