#Getting Divorced

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What was your sign? Share your wisdom below ⬇️ I knew for sure when: 1️⃣ I couldn’t relax. Ever. I blamed myself for being uptight for years instead of wondering WHY. The more work I did to feel at home in myself, the less I felt at home in the relationship. Turns out that it’s very hard to relax where you don’t want to be. 2️⃣ I was staying because I was afraid to leave, not because I wanted to stay. In 2021 I couldn’t find examples of women telling ANY positive stories about divorce. I decided to redefine what divorce means and write an incredible story for myself. 3️⃣ I was hyper focused on my ex changing (bless him) until I realized it wasn’t about him. I was the problem - I didn’t want to be there and I wasn’t being honest with myself or him. Some relationships are meant to come to an end. It’s an ending, not a failure. I don’t need to justify it or villainize anyone. Three years later I have the career of my dreams, a home that feels like a hug, three happy kids, a healthy body, and so much more that defies all the norms of what post divorce life is supposed to look like for a single moms who spent 12 years as a stay at home mom. You can decide your divorce is a plot twist on the way to a life so good it doesn’t make sense. Comment MEMBER below for how. Because the court system ends your marriage legally, but I’m going to help you ensure you build a life that sets your soul on fire. 🔥 #divorcecoach #divorcetips #divorcesupport #covertnarcissist #divorcedmom #divorcedmoms #manifestingabundance #femaleceos #

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Behind every woman who chose divorce is a young woman who tried. She held on for years. She stayed as long as she could. She struggled quietly. She always put her kids first. And somewhere along the way, she lost herself. Choosing divorce isn’t giving up. Sometimes, it’s choosing to stop disappearing. If this resonated, you’re not alone. Share this with someone else who deserves to feel seen. Comment ok for my free Divorce Survival Guide. If you don’t see a DM right away, the link is in my bio.

When a woman initiates divorce, it’s rarely impulsive. Most women don’t leave the moment things get hard. They leave after they’ve tried explaining. After they’ve carried the emotional labor quietly and convinced themselves that wanting more was asking too much. By the time she files, she isn’t “giving up.” She’s already done the grieving. That’s why she can move forward without looking back. That’s why she doesn’t spiral the way people expect. The processing didn’t happen after the divorce, it happened inside the marriage. This is what people misinterpret. They see resolve and call it cold. They see boundaries and call it selfish. They see readiness and assume a lack of love. And once that line is crossed, there’s no romance left in “trying harder.”

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Getting back together after a separation/break up is never easy. There will be a lot to work on, and you both need to be willing to put in the work that is required. But, it is possible. ❤️ #marriedlife #marriage #momlife #teendad #momsofinstagram #honesty #therapy #divorce #marriageiswork

You know that iconic scene of Nicole Kidman walking out of her divorce with Tom Cruise, arms wide, celebrating her freedom? My divorce ceremony was nothing like that. As we signed the last paper together, we reached across the table, held hands, and both began to cry. We stood to hug, but the mediator walked in, leaving us in this awkward pause. After it was over, we walked out onto the front porch of the old Victorian home where the office was. We stood there, holding each other, crying for what felt like an eternity. When we finally said goodbye, I felt a nudge that there was more I needed to say. Later, standing on top of a mountain in my own way of processing, I called him. I sobbed. I told him I loved him, not as his wife anymore but for who he truly is. I told him what an amazing father he is, and how grateful I am for the love he gave me. I told him I was excited for the love that is coming into his life. And that above all, I wanted to continue our mantra of love, compassion, and grace. I apologized for how much I changed after Jessi’s death. He told me never to apologize for that. He told me he was sorry he could not hold the space I needed. He told me he loved me too, and that he was sorry in his own ways. We cried again. It felt like a movie scene, the kind of ending you rarely see. Two people who love each other deeply, who love their children fiercely, and who know their paths are meant to go in different directions. It was one of the hardest moments of my life, second only to losing my best friend. And it is nothing to celebrate. But what I do celebrate is the love, the compassion, and the grace that carried us through. This was the most beautiful ending I could have asked for, even in its heartbreak. Because of my healing journey, I was able to stay open enough to hold love even in grief, to honor his pain as much as mine, and to let us both walk away with compassion. This is what it means to move through grief. Not shutting down, but holding one another inside it. To honor love, even when it changes form. All my love, Danielle ❤️ #divorce #grief #griefstory #love #compassion #grace #doitdifferent #emotionalhealing

Bit of a vulnerable one here. But I want to share it because it’s real. This is what I’ve learned and if you get something out of it, that’s just one more silver lining. And life is all about just finding the silver lining sometimes. Feel free to share this with someone who’s going through the same. Maybe it helps. #authenticity #identity #motivation #mindset #relationships

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