#Autism Pda

PDA autism is defined as pathalogical demand avoidance or persistent drive for autonomy. It might look like defiance from an outide perspective but there is so much more happening. This is how I explain PDA autism to people in my life so they can better understand me and support me💗 #autism #autismawarness #pdaautism

One could argue that parenting a child with Pathological Demand Avoidance is harder… PDA is recognized as one of 5 types of autism spectrum in the UK, and by very knowledgeable therapists in the US. It is not yet in the DSM. It can be so extreme that it takes on the negative traits of schizophrenia (not the positive traits which are delusions and hallucinations). How to talk with someone with PDA: Be respectful: Avoid using words like "need", "now", "must", and "urgently". Be calm: Don't take it personally. Be flexible: Be ready to scale back demands or change your approach if the person starts to panic. Be indirect: Find ways to "ask without asking". For example, instead of saying "You need to get dressed now", you could say "The clothes are on the bed, I'm happy to help" and then walk away. Use declarative language: Use statements, comments, or observations. Rephrase: Try talking about an object rather than a person. Start requests with "please": This can make a big difference. Make the person feel useful: Use words like "us", "we", "let's", and "together". Show appreciation: Thank the person for doing something difficult or helpful. Give indirect praise: Some people with PDA crave positive attention and recognition, but don't like receiving compliments or praise. Thanks #neurodivergent_minds - “PDA is so hard It gets confused for anxiety or bad behavior but this is a real thing. What can happen is when there’s demands (rules, instructions, social rules, expectations) this can cause a number of things including sensory overload. The nervous system gets into a flight, fight, or freeze state. PDA has levels to it. On one end it can be distractions all the way to aggression or complete shut down.” #mentalhealthawareness #neurodivergence #audhd #adhd #neuroaffirming #mentalhealth #parenting #therapistsofinstagram

Here’s what you’re looking at: a real-life autism PDA moment where we go from window-down chaos to calm conversation in just a 6 minute #autism #pda #pathalogicaldemandavoidance #cognitive #redirection

I misspoke- we don’t take in 18% more sensory input, we hear 18 decibels lower than allistic counterparts and can be equally sensitive to other senses. But you get the point. #pdaautistic #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autistic #audhd #adhd #murrietatherapist #temeculatherapist #temeculavalley #menifee #lakeelsinore

Both of our boys have PDA, and if you’ve ever tried to communicate with someone who has Pathological Demand Avoidance, you’ll know that the usual parenting advice simply doesn’t work. PDA brains experience everyday demands as pressure - and pressure triggers anxiety, overwhelm, and shutdowns. n this video I’m snaring the simple communication shifts thaf make a huge meone 9,902 542 calm when their/nervous system goes into defence mode. If you’re struggling with PDA at home or school, you’re not alone - and these approaches can change everything. For more SEND guidance, visit the AskEllie website. #sendsupport #PDAParenting #AutismPDA #Neurodiversity #sen

Follow for more help and tips with a PDA/ADHD child These 10 questions will help your child to feel in control, making them feel safe and valued. 💡 What’s something really cool you did today? 💡 Can you show me something cool you’ve been working on? 💡 What’s making you feel happy right now? 💡 I can join in with you with what you’re doing, if you want? 💡 Is there anything I can do to help make this easier for you? 💡What’s your favourite way to have some chill time? 💡 What can I do that would make today more fun for you? 💡 How about you tell me about something you love doing and we can do it together? 💡 How can I make you feel more safe right now? 💡 What’s the one thing that’s makes you feel safe when you’re upset? 💡 Would you like some quiet time or shall we chill out together? #pathologicaldemandavoidance #pdaparenting #neurodivergentkids #pdaautism #pda

Why are most pda children out of school. This reel explains my thoughts on this subject. #pda #pathalogicaldemandavoidance #autistic #send #education #teacher

Here is a one minute training to help you determine whether the PDA neurotype describes your child. I generally look for these five things: 👉 survival drive for autonomy that consistently overrides other survival instincts. 👉 equalizing behavior that looks controlling to get back to a place of nervous system safety. 👉 “high masking” (looks like two different versions of oneself). Not every PDA child or teen will be high masking especially once they hit burnout. 👉 constant need for undivided attention and signals of nervous system safety. 👉cumulative nature of nervous system stress which causes the disability to fluctuate. Want to go deeper? My free Clarity Masterclass is designed to help you determine if your child is PDA. Comment “CLRT” below and we’ll send you the link. xoxo, Casey #pathologicaldemandavoidance #autism #autismawareness #autismacceptance #autismmom #autismparent #autismparenting #sensoryprocessingdisorder #sensoryintegration #adhd #adhdkids #adhdkid #traumainformed #traumainformedschools #traumainformedcare #traumainformedparenting #oppositionaldefiantdisorder #parenting #motherhoodishard #parents #sensoryintegration #selfregulation #selfregulationskills #autisticwomen #highlysensitivechild #highlysensitivepeople #spiritedchild #pervasivedriveforautonomy #pdaautism #oppositionaldefiantdisorder

Autism PDA is not about being difficult. It is about survival. For my daughter, going back to Burger King was not spoiling her. It was restoring safety to her nervous system. PDA kids live in a constant fight-or-flight state, and rituals like this bring them back to calm. Co-regulation is what every autistic child deserves. Many autistic adults never had this support and are still healing from the absence of it. That is why I share these moments to build a culture of understanding, regulation, and compassion.

If you're wondering about early signs of PDA autism (Pathological Demand Avoidance also know as Pervasive Drive forAutonomy ) in babies or toddlers, here are some behaviours I noticed with my own child. You might relate, or spot things you hadn't maybe considered before. Other signs you might notice include intense need for control, difficulty with transitions, and anxiety around demands. Every child is unique, so not all signs will be present, but trust your instincts. Have you noticed similar behaviours in your little one? Share your experiences below. Sonia X #pdaparenting #autismparenting #pathologicaldemandavoidance #parentingsupport #pdaawareness

I’ve seen several autistic students labeled with oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) and it’s not accurate. And when that happens, they tend to get placed on a behavior intervention plan w/ some type of positive reinforcement, which is the exact opposite of what works. Have you heard of PDA? Let me know below. ⤵️

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