#Changed Behavior

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As a clinical psychologist, I see this so many times. People who are deeply frustrated with the world around them and longing for change. But yet when asked to turn inward, to change themselves, to examine their own patterns, fears or responsibilities, it’s complete silence. It’s human to want things to be better or different. It’s harder to accept that lasting change often begins not with others but within ourselves. Healing, growth and transformation are uncomfortable but they are the true path to change. Change isn’t easy but it’s always possible. And it always begins with you.

✨ “The best apology is changed behavior.” ✨ True self-forgiveness isn’t about saying sorry a hundred times—it’s about proving to yourself that you’ve grown. When you take action, shift your habits, and show up differently, that’s when the guilt begins to fade and healing begins. 🌱 #ChangedBehavior #SelfForgiveness #HealingJourney #GrowthMindset #SelfLove #EmotionalHealing #PersonalGrowth #ForgiveYourself #Accountability #LifeLessons

4 ways People change ~ John Maxwell Change is not always easy but absolutely necessary for our individual and collective growth. These are some of the more obvious ways people change -that might help you very quickly understand when and why it flows more to change directions 🧭 in Life Recently, I discovered that the more force we put onto a change -the more it resists to flow. At times it’s good to go fully into finishing a chapter that we might not like or fully enjoy but still something draws us back in like a magnet, even if it causes heartbreak, pain, temporary sorrow or loss- so it can naturally then change and adjust directions into a new life phase and direction (that in long term is more beneficial for our evolution). Happy Creating and continuously growing 💫 Follow @visionaires.club and our own Podcast @visionary__voices interviewing the most inspiring Creators, Artists and Visionaries we come across ✨🎞️ #art #mondaymotivation #motivationmonday #psychologyfacts #motivational #inspirationalquotes #psychology #selfdevelopment

People will always notice the change in your attitude towards them but won't notice their behavior that made you change. . . . . #viral #attitude #behaviors #change

This energy shift when someone mentions their past behavior is everything - and it reveals exactly what you deserve 💯 When someone has to bring up “how they were in the beginning” to defend themselves, they’re accidentally admitting that their current behavior isn’t meeting the standard they already set. It’s like saying “remember when I used to treat you well?” as if that’s supposed to excuse treating you poorly now. Here’s the psychology behind this: People often use past good behavior as emotional currency, hoping it will buy them tolerance for current bad behavior. But relationships don’t work on a point system where previous effort excuses present neglect. The reality is: If someone has to remind you of how good they used to be, it’s because they’re aware their current actions aren’t measuring up. They’re hoping you’ll lower your expectations based on past performance rather than addressing why their behavior has declined. This is actually valuable information. When someone can treat you amazingly and then gradually reduce that effort, it shows you that the good treatment was conditional - probably dependent on how much they felt they needed to impress you or keep you interested. The women who protect their standards? They recognize that consistency matters more than impressive beginnings. They don’t let past good behavior become an excuse for present mediocrity. They understand that someone who truly values you doesn’t need to be reminded to treat you well. Instead of accepting declining treatment, they know how to communicate in ways that either inspire someone to return to their best behavior or reveal that they’re no longer willing to put in genuine effort. Ready to maintain your standards and inspire consistent treatment? Check my link in bio for the 15 proven texts that help you address declining behavior and make him step back up to the standard he already set 👆 Have you ever had someone use their past good behavior to excuse current poor treatment? How did you handle it?​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Boundaries are not about changing who you are; they're about being intentional with who you allow into your life. When you start treating people based on how they treat you, you're not being selfish – you're being self-aware. You're recognizing your worth and refusing to settle for anything less. Keep setting those boundaries and prioritizing your own emotional well-being! Credit: @bnb #boundaries #selfcare #selfawareness #mentalhealthmatters #emotionalintelligence #prioritizeyourself #healthyrelationships #youareworthit

Forgiveness clears the anger. It does not restore access into one’s life. Someone receives forgiveness because holding on to resentment drains energy. Forgiveness frees the person who carried the hurt. Access into one’s life runs on a different rule. Respect. Accountability. Changed behavior. Repeated disrespect breaks trust. Broken trust changes the terms. Unchanged behavior closes the door. Forgiveness stands. The boundary stands stronger. Peace comes first. Respect earns entry. 🎥 credit: Robert Wilkinson #BoundariesMatter #SelfRespect #protectyourpeace #KnowYourWorth #toxicrelationships

Do you agree?❤Taken from new book, ‘Stop Letting Everything Affect You.’ Click the link in my bio to grab your copy!

The key to lasting behavioral change ISN’T what you think… Our behaviours are inherently tied to the perceptions we hold about ourselves. When we change the way we define ourselves, our actions naturally align to support this new self-concept. The research on identity-based habits is fascinating (I came across it while doing research for my PhD). It’s been primarily explored in the context of health and consumer behavior, as well as in educational context (specifically the link between identity & motivation of student to learn). 📚 Here’s a selection of early research: –Oyserman, D., Fryberg, S. A., & Yoder, N. (2007). Identity-based motivation and health. Journal of personality and social psychology, 93(6), 1011. –Berger, J., & Rand, L. (2008). Shifting signals to help health: Using identity signaling to reduce risky health behaviors. Journal of Consumer Research, 35(3), 509-518. –Kaplan, A., & Flum, H. (2009). Motivation and identity: The relations of action and development in educational contexts—An introduction to the special issue. Educational Psychologist, 44(2), 73-77. More recently, authors like James Clear have popularized the concepts. If you’re interested in learning more about habits, I recommend Atomic Habits. A fantastic synthesis of research coupled a highly applicable framework.

People will always notice the change in your attitude toward them, but they will never notice it’s their behavior that made you change. #lifecoach #spiritualcoach #lifequotes #lifelessons

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